Wednesday 18 December 2013

We All Go A Little Crazy At Christmas





People often ask Me what they can do for Me to please Me, to impress Me or show their devotion to Me, but above all: what can they do to really stand out among the many. I really do have everything I could possibly need, the tributes roll in on schedule and My WishLists have been filled and bought out many times over. I get flowers sent, gifts brought to My door, trips to the spa, and even a platinum card with My name on it whose bills go to one very generous slave. However after mentioning all of these types of suggestions, I am beginning to wonder if some of My current and potential devoted subjects are hoping for a more unique, personal and one of a kind way to show their truest feelings to Me. 


I have sat down long and hard to come up with a selection of truly one of a kind, stand out above the rest, very original ideas you could pursue in the hopes of getting My attention and appreciation. As someone recently told Me upon hearing that they had made Me laugh, “Giving someone like You the gift of laughter is the best thing I could ever do for You.”



So, in no particular order, here is a Very Special Ellechemical Treasure Hunt, open to all who may dare, gamble pride in the hopes to please, risk public ridicule, and perhaps face a possible awkward confrontation, all for the promise of a little time spent in My limelight. Get on it. They say there is only one chance to make a first impression. I say there are countless opportunities to bring someone special  joy.



Your MANTRA (excuse) will be: “I’m trying to win a contest.”


1.   A fax of a picture of a smartphone displaying this page.


2.   A picture of a Starbucks cup/jacket with at least 7 instructions on it.


3.   A picture of you riding transit with a ticket no less than 1 year expired.


4.   A photo of you checking an email from Me from your car – but not using a smartphone, laptop or tablet.


5.   A photo of your elaborate presentation of a TV dinner which must include the original packaging.


6.   A screen shot of a Facebook post of your creation that elicits no less than 3 WTF’s.


7.   A photo of you in a shirt with a 6”x 6” QR code that links to: A YouTube video of someone churning butter.


8.   A photo of you at a movie theatre with at least 3 other people.


9.   Proof that you have a Google + account that you actually use.


10. A photo of a grocery receipt containing: Vegetable Oil, Cucumber, Eggplant, Vaseline and Icy Hot AND NOTHING ELSE except a tube of Polysporin if you want to go for the gold.


11. A photo of you in the hippest restaurant you can find eating a can of Spam. (If, and only if, you are a vegan, you may substitute for a gallon jar of pickles.)


12. Screen shots of your (CraigsList or equivalent) correspondence with a dog walker making arrangements to walk your Komodo Dragon.


13. A picture of you in a coffee shop holding a receipt proving you bought the next 5 coffees in line.


14. An avatar of Me or of Me and you together created in Microsoft Paint.


15. The high score on an arcade game – In My Name.


16. Proof that you made a tribute to Me from as far back as you are able to find. 


17. A 30-60 second video of you on crowded public transit wearing headphones and singing OUT LOUD one or more of the following songs: “9 to 5” by Dolly Parton, “Morning Train” by Sheena Easton, “Eye of the Tiger” by Survivor, “Final Countdown” by Europe or “Memories” from CATS. 


18. A YouTube video of you participating in a non-violent flash mob. 


19. A link to a twitpic of a ‘selfie’ of you listening to one of My sessions laying on a bed in a mattress store. 


20. Proof of your having made a non-perishables donation to a Food Bank with items that you have adhered googly eyes to.





We both know some of these are easier than others, so if you are planning to do one of the easy ones without doing one of the harder ones (or promising to do one of the harder ones later) just know that I won’t really be all that impressed. If you are just going to fart around, don’t even bother. I have pictures of these in My mind that will only be outdone by a serious performance.



Happy Holidays Horde!



Hypnotically yours,


Ellechemy

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Monday 2 December 2013

The Complete Person: A Guide to Approaching the Alpha Female

The Complete Person: A Guide to Approaching the Alpha Female


"The Dominatrix, attractive and mysterious, seduces and subverts the wills of men, weakening them and placing them in Her thrall to cater to Her slightest whim. Her motives are inscrutable, seemingly arbitrary: She wants what She wants because She wants it, and pursues it without mitigation or apology. Her power is mysterious and subversive: She conquers men not by meeting them in contest where they are strong, but where they are weak. Her tools are subtle: insinuation, manipulation, and undermining the strength of Her targets. She takes pleasure in Her games: making men into weak, humiliated puppets for Her gratification."

This archetypal description of the Dominatrix becomes instantly problematic for any true Alpha Female as well as any genuinely hopeful beta would-be love interest when She finds Herself becoming the screen upon which the above ideal is projected. 

There is an abundance of Cosmo style write ups on the Alpha Female, and almost every one of them draw heavily on the archetype of the Dominatrix. These articles measure a woman by her sexual availability almost exclusively, and are nothing like the same articles which exist on the Alpha Male. Should you desire to read anything of the sort on the Alpha Female in society, you will first have to search Google Scholar, and then you will find papers available for a fee. These are dense works of exhaustive research on which others will base their work and are tools for all intents and purposes. These are real articles and are worth their weight in actual currency. They exist, but are not easily accessible to the general public.

Not all Dommes are Alphas, and not all Alphas are Dommes. I am both a Dominant and an Alpha and so feel qualified to delve into this quandary in this article. In the real world, I can assert Myself without being in a scene, without wearing a corset, without pulling Domme rank of any kind because I have spent My entire lifetime cultivating My personal power and becoming a whole, complete, independent, self-reliant person. As well, it comes somewhat naturally to Me but I still face the "Alpha Female" challenges of being disliked by other females, being called a ball-busting bitch by certain men and generally misunderstood when it comes to making the hard choices which only leaders and teachers can understand. There are many ways to develop Alpha traits, and for Me it was through pursuing a career over finding a job. I became specialized, skilled and sought after enough in My chosen field to know as much as anyone can that I had achieved financial independence for the rest of My life. This is no small feat for an Artist, let Me tell you. Along the way, I heard again and again others use words like "leader" and "alpha" to describe My personality, even before I could comprehend their true significance. Eventually these words took on an almost derogatory connotation in My world and it was a long time before I accepted let alone embraced them in all areas of My life, before I understood and then loved what it meant to be One.

I have compiled a number of typical traits attributed to Alpha Females, all of which are ones I have come across countless times in vast numbers of Men's, Women's, News and Entertainment magazines. I will break down the typical Alpha Female myth and reveal My truth as an ever evolving being with Dominant and Alpha traits, and I hope that Dommes and submissives, Alphas and betas and omegas alike find it helpful and validating.


MYTH #1

An alpha female is used to men and women chasing her, so her expectations are higher than most women's. This type of woman is used to men going crazy for her, and you will stand out more if you can keep your cool.

ME:
Alpha Femininity Exclusively = Bechdel Test Failed. (SAD FACE) The described Woman's 'power' is defined exclusively by Her relationships. The reason this is the huge problem that it is, is because this is NOT how we would characterize an alpha male.
The life of a person in the Alpha position is fairly complete and they don't need you to complete them. THIS IS A GOOD ASSUMPTION TO GO ON WHEN APPROACHING ANYONE, and perhaps one of the few presumptions that won't make an "ass" of anyone. When you are with an Alpha, you get to be your best, you get to focus on building (solo and together) rather than saving, rescuing or performing emotional or financial triage. Don't approach a woman and assume they need you and that you are going to be offering her a completeness she would lack without you. They've gotten along quite fine all this time without you. Why do we do this at all? Well, we do this because as people (individuals) we tend to value our own experiences above all others. We will have to consciously fight that intuition in every way/form because in this case it is WRONG and will only infuriate your beloved and elusive Alpha.


MYTH #2

The alpha woman always has several men/women (INTERESTED PARTIES) on the go and likes to keep her options open.

ME:
The Alpha Woman decided what Her relationship priorities looked like LONG before your paths crossed. She may have several relationships on the go. She may have One. She may have None. She may have more than She wants, She may have less than She wants. Some of these relationships will be a balance of sexual, emotional and practical more or less according to Her preferences on that mix. Much as you should never think that someone is waiting for another to complete them, you should never think that you will change these priorities and preferences. How they do and do not line up with your own preferences is NOT HER responsibility: She does not have to meet you half way, She does not have to become what you want, She does not have to want what you have to offer. WANTING SOMEONE DOES NOT MAKE THEM LESS OF A PERSON. THE PERSON YOU WANT IS NO LESS A PERSON THAN YOU, AND WANTING THEM DOES NOT CHANGE THAT. YOUR EXPRESSED DESIRE IMPARTS NO OBLIGATIONS. I will tell you what She most likely does want from you: TO JUST LET HER BE HERSELF. THAT'S ALL SHE MAY EVER ASK OF YOU. (See link)

MYTH #3

The alpha female is a busy woman, or wants you to think so. She likes to have you at her beck and call and wants you to work around her schedule.

ME:
To this I say: Remember that EVERY point of contact is a demand for time and attention, even if only to read it. Reading your emails, answering your messages, responding to your texts, tweets, comments, likes and other posts will most likely not happen in Her 'down time'. Her 'down time' is a precious commodity reserved for replenishing and rejuvenating Her resources. Just because She exhibits the discipline to actually make and keep time to Herself (Oh, yes, Alphas enjoy their own company and will fight for their much desired alone time) doesn't mean She is lounging all day long. Even if She has an army of minions to take care of everything, can you imagine the scheduling, coordinating and delegating to even make this happen? There are no 'free' lunches, especially for Alpha Females.


MYTH #4

If she always insists on going Dutch, she might be pulling one of her fancy alpha tricks. Why? Because if you never treat her, she'll never owe you anything.  Make Her something (a picnic, family home made item) that she will find difficult or impolite to refuse.

ME:
FUCK YOU MAN. If you buy dinner, what exactly does an Alpha OR ANYONE IN THAT POSITION owe you? DINNER. Now, if you want to exchange this owing of dinner or other unsolicited gift for owing of anything else... TOUGH FUCKING SHIT. If you think you have the ability to negotiate this dinner into anything else, then by all means negotiate it. That means saying it out loud, negotiating, and being open to the very real possibility of being justifiably shut down. If you're not willing to negotiate out loud, buying dinner = owing dinner, and nothing you have in your head changes that. The expectation of an unnegotiated exchange, in which dinner buys you affection, attention or sexual access is part of a pattern of thinking commonly referred to as `rape culture`*. When you build these exchanges in your mind undisclosed to the other party, you are creating justifications for completely negating the preferences and decision making powers of the person for whom you feel lust. At that point, a form of rape has already happened and nothing you say after the fact changes the fact that you have erased someone`s person hood. Agreements are only agreements when everyone agrees. Notice that women are not granted social permission to create these contracts for one and when they do, the social sanction is much harsher for them (ie: that crazy bitch) than the `boys will be boys`approval that men enjoy.

* Or call it 'MAGICAL RAPE THINKING' if that makes it easier to swallow.

The presumed inequality of power in these situations forces the woman to accept the man`s interpretation of what happened and how acceptable it is. For example: Arnold Schwartzeneggor was notorious for molesting the women he encountered in professional contexts, including crew on films he worked on and journalists interviewing him. His explanation for this behaviour which included lifting women`s tops over their heads and grabbing both breasts, was that he was just fooling around or that he was just kidding. Bear in mind the many ways in which he was intimidating; one of the most physically powerful men on the planet, who is also extremely wealthy and incredibly well-connected, politically, socially and economically. Schwartzeneggor weilded tremendous amounts of every kind of power society says a man should aspire to. There are not many men who can lift a small car off the ground, buy several blocks of LA on a whim, and have dinner with 2 US presidents on the same day. When such a man states that his behavior was "only joking", you and all parties present are expected to take his word. This is an extreme example and there are certainly many different circumstances in which lines get crossed, however it is statistically indesputable that men are on average more economically and politically empowered than their female counterparts. This is an unfortunate legacy of a history we've yet to outgrow, in which upperbody muscle mass roughly dictated personal power. Go ahead and think of gorillas, because we are NOT that far away from that. We are close enough to that to still be living under its statistical shadow.


MYTH #5

She continuously asks you for favors and you are eager to do them for her. Sound familiar? The alpha female is used to having men pursue her and give in to her every whim.

ME:
Mutuality. It has to go both ways, if She's expecting certain things from you She has to negotiate that as well. These favors do not go into a bank that you get to cash out for something you desire from Her. If at any point you feel taken advantage of, the responsible thing to do is to communicate that or to leave.


MYTH #6

If she constantly talks down to you and makes rude or mocking remarks, you need to defend your honor and fight back with equally witty comments. You never know what the alpha female might say, so you always have to be "on" and ready for verbal combat.

ME:
Historically, honor has been a concept that has been applied to the landed nobility of warlike fuedal culture to keep the gentry from killing off the peasants when they get bored. IE : you're allowed to kill some, but not too many. You can kill them in some pretty awful ways, but there are limits. (If too many die, who will grow the food?)
Defending your honor sounds an awful lot like a pissed off child defending a school yard brawl. There is plenty of room for honor in modern life, BUT NOT THE KIND OF HONOR THAT NEEDS DEFENDING. This is just so sadly typical of the advice handed out to those who would like to be with an Alpha Female. "Don't even bother - too much work/stress/conflict and not enough blow jobs," is sadly the subtext of this kind of advice. This discourages those who deep down would like to pursue a relationship with the Woman they are most attracted to before they even have a chance to try, and it blatantly attempts to use reverse psychology, reframing and bad hypnosis on Women to get them to overcompensate in an effort to disprove this ugly "truth".

So go ahead and have your wonderfully warped power exchange fantasy, by all means neccessary, but remember these insights when you meet an Alpha Female who you suddenly find yourself wanting to talk to as much as you want to jerk off to.



Hypnotically yours,

Ellechemy

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Tuesday 22 October 2013

A Personal Touch

A Personal Touch

Have you noticed that I am around a lot more these days? There's a reason, a secret to share with you now. I have taken a nice lengthy sabbatical from My wonderful RL career to recharge artistically and to embrace a lifestyle where no obligations nor demands exist on My time & expertise except the ones I put there. My intention in this is to create a new series of Ellechemical Media in the form of not only refined and improved audio production but by filming and creating video sessions as well. This post will explain why I have chosen to share even more of My Self with My audience, and why now. There may be some visualization expected of you if you choose to continue reading further on.

Imagine sitting down comfortably, stealing a private moment to yourself, getting ready to enjoy the pleasures of being taken on an erotic joyride in blissful solitude. It's going to be so good to hear My voice begin to purr, melting and trickling into your brain again, except this time... This time, while you listen to Me, I say your name or your nickname ...and you watch Me put you into a trance, speaking to you, talking directly to you, addressing you by name in My perfectly silky tongue. Imagine if the session was not just an audio, but a video session completely customized for your maximum pleasure and enjoyment; not some random clip you came across while searching for something new and hot, but instead your perfectly realized fantasy scenario. There's no need to imagine anymore... you can just open your eyes, stare straight ahead and watch Me take control of your mind as it's all happening right then right there, for you to see. The only thing you have to do next is enjoy getting sucked in to a visual vortex of hypnotic ecstasy getting to you like nothing else possibly could or would. It would become your dreamiest secret, your special treat, your greatest reward.

This is not only possible, it is all happening now, and it is very, very real. With the help of a new Miss Ellechemy model account at the site www.customs4u.com I am now creating beautiful and never before seen works of High Art, charged with all the sensuality of a True Goddess ~ Nothing Less. So many things had to come together for this to happen, most importantly a site that actually pays Me 100% of what I price My content at, and then adds a percentage which the customer pays. The customer can rest assured that I get paid out when they transfer My earnings onto a pre-paid MasterCard all set up for Me through Payoneer. (I love the idea that I can actually buy My gourmet healthy groceries and in general shop locally with this account.) All very sweet but here's the big plus: The site does not make any claim to anything I create or post there, which is more than I can say for any other site I have investigated. If there are other sites out there that offer all of this *without* the sleazy vibe, I have not heard of them. Admirers can even remain anonymous if they like, unless you email or message Me to tell Me you placed the order, I would not know who is placing the order as the site protects the privacy of customers and models alike. Heck, as an Artist these are better terms and conditions than FaceBook. I have even had sustained and positive interactions with some of the sites tech support staff and developers through the entire application and payment setup, so I feel more than ready to let the fun begin!

As a highly creative and imaginative Alpha Female, I have NO shortage of original ideas, concepts and expertise. If you are a devoted fan with a particular request, I would love to hear from you. The idea of you being the writer and I as the director and the star is intoxicatingly charged with vast potential for a heightened experience or deepening of our bond. I have an exquisite and extensive collection of captivating footwear, lingerie, stockings, corsets, dresses, hats, veils, fascinators, jewellery, gloves, masks, accessories, makeup, airbrush & body makeup, nails, contact lenses, props, fetish gear, medical fetish equipment, lace, leather, latex and some marvellous hypno-toys which have been custom made for Me for just this purpose, and
all very available by special request.. I have been just waiting for such an opportunity to seduce and captivate your erotic imagination. 





Obviously I have every intention of raising the custom video bar because I find doing things well to be so much more rewarding and invigorating. The production value I am able to bring to My film projects and custom commissioned videos (due to having invested in the necessary film equipment, studio space and time) will exceed expectation and enhance the effect and the experience of the session. The editing capabilities, the number of locations, sets and scenes, the costume elements and changes, the soundtrack, the overall quality and replay value... all conspiring to give you what you never even realized you needed, but knew you were missing. It will, simply put, blow your mind.


Ellechemy

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Monday 30 September 2013

Waking Up to Trance Out



Deeper Trances. Lasting Effects. Triggers that Work Instantly. Post Hypnotic Suggestions that actually happen. Sexuality not Excluded from your Trance. 

Why do some people who practice hypnosis achieve such extraordinary feats while others do not? Success has been studied and is teachable. Anyone can begin to get more out of hypnosis by bringing more to the session. I have explored a vast amount of collected data on the subject and conducted My own research and experiments without ever feeling the pressure to exclude content for propriety's sake. To keep everything you are about to read in context, it is important to have realistic expectations at the outset.


 The level of depth you get to in one trance or session can be increased the next time, by up to around 50%. To double the depth of your first trance, it will take 2 more trances each having increased depth by 50%, however you will have reached double depth part way through the 3rd trance and by the end of it you will have more than doubled the level of depth you can reach in a single session. So, assuming you had a 10 out of 10 trance, and continue to have such, this is what you could attain after four trances with the same goal. The element of surprise always exists because you are taking yourself a little further into unknown territory every time.

Time well spent: This Depth Potential Chart represents a good amount of inner exploration, thought, focus, concentration, training, discipline, dedication and passion. 


Depth Potential


Eventually a drop off may occur, if and when you have fully exhausted that subject's benefit to you.  At that time, you will know where you want to delve next and things will happen naturally and you will find the next subject you want to explore. Just remember, most people keep repeating the experience of the first trance over and over without progressing deeper into it, more each time. They just start at the beginning instead of starting where they left off the last time. 

When I say "deeper" or "depth" you can apply this equally to "lack of sensation" or "numbness" as in the case with hypnotic anaesthesia. There are many of you who enjoy the Hypnotically Administered Anaesthetic I give your cock in My file "Shiver". I have worked with subjects to make this lasting, a permanent condition for them and they love it. The techniques in this post will absolutely enhance these types of wanted side effects. This is also essentially a huge Post Hypnotic Suggestion, so again, these techniques work to improve and increase the likelihood your triggers will stay firmly implanted and all of your PHS's will manifest like magic. Hypnosis will only work on the mind, but the mind has some power over the body, and it can promote the production of dopamine, endorphin, hormones and other neurotransmitters as well. It can shift mental states that are prohibitive to healing as well as to promote muscular relaxation or contraction, even serving to reduce movements. 

Tell yourself with Me now that you will be able to go under, and drift deeply. When you come out of trance, you will remember how things shifted, and then you went under, you can recall how far you got and you can go there now. That was easy and enjoyable, but it doesn't end here. Now you will begin your next trance from this point, these coordinates, and you will drift and sink deeper from here, going further than you ever imagined you could on your second hypnotic trance. From now on you will always take an extra minute to recall where you finished your last trance and you will begin your next one from that point. This is how it is supposed to be, this is how your are meant to be using this time and being used and made to be brought deeper. 


The 5 Aspects 

Think of it as a recipe: you will need ingredients and equipment as well as to follow instructions in the correct order and then wait the appropriate amount of time before you see results other than a messy kitchen.
There will be a thrill in undertaking this and a knowing that the time is right once you have taken care of the following:

Trust.   Ritual.   Senses.   Goal.   Reinforcement.

Trust is the first step. Because you are going to be hypnotized you may have spent time learning how to go under and tried different recordings. Even if not, most people are exposed to hypnotic suggestions several times a day just from advertising. These alone are good reasons to set yourself up for a good trance by starting fresh with a deprogramming or mind wipe. If this sounds a little scary, maybe it ought to be. Having a hypnotist whose skill you know and trust is truly your first step.  Self-hypnosis is also an option if you are able to implant suggestions which are accepted and agreed to by your subconscious mind. Some times we need to discover these things in giant leaps and other times we require taking baby steps. I would ask you to take a moment to decide which it is you'd like, now and each time you undergo hypnosis.

Studies on the effects of hypnotism for the purposes of deprogramming are even more compelling considering the subjects used all scored low on the Stanford Hypnotic Susceptibility Scale (SHSS). Incredibly, behavioural data showed that the programmed behaviour had been completely eliminated in terms of both reaction time and accuracy for both the experimental and control groups after the hypnotic deprogramming suggestion. 

Several of these studies are written for the prestigious Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. For more information about these studies you can go here.
http://develintel.blogspot.ca/2006/07/deprogramming-through-meditation-and.html

Ritual is the next step, or steps, and will require your full attention. There is a difference between going in to hypnosis without preconceived notions and going in without care. Even if you throw caution to the wind, you must pour your heart into this in order to get what you need back out of it. I will show you how and you will be pleased with how easy it is. 

Prepare a book or electronic log where you will document and journal. Each time you listen to or have a session you will record the following details:

First prepare for your session with a deprogramming mind wipe. This is an essential step many subjects skip, to their detriment. Record it in your log. Use a Deprogramming File which can be added to the start of your playlist. 

Each entry in your log should contain: 
Date. Time. Place. The Session* (Hypnotist, Session Name, Length of Session, number of times looped) + your goal with this session + did you sleep or wake up at the end. *(or playlist)
 
Write down your goal with this session. You may also write out an affirmation for this goal. If it is a long term goal, you may want to create a sigil you will associate with the affirmation. This is a promise you are making to yourself, do not do so lightly. Not only will you meet your expectation, you will exceed it. Make sure you are ready for this commitment by asking yourself and waiting for the answer. It may be that you hear it, see the words, or just know by the feeling somewhere in your body. If it is not yes, then go back to step one, trust.

Senses. The next step is to work with your senses to prepare for your trance. The senses are there to assist with you attaining your goal through hypnosis, even if your goal is to experience powerful, lasting, deep hypnosis. I am going to tell you exactly what to do to wake up each of your senses right now so that you can start becoming a deeply hypnotizable subject.

The 5 things you will do to enlist the aid of your senses can become highly specialized and even part of your ritual. The way you prepare each sense for a deep inner journey can go a long way to set the tone. The 3 main choices for you are to Sexualize aspects of the ritual, to Sacrelize them, or to Subjugate yourself through them. This will be something you decide later, but for now I will even give you examples of each. So easy. Some of you are doing these things already. If you are not, it's time to learn.

Find a safe time and place where you won't experience any interruption. Honestly tell yourself that you have taken care of that much at least. Get into comfortable attire. Set the tone by adjusting attire to something that will enhance the experience you are about to have while under. For example:

(sexualized = naked, stroking, cock ring, in panties, collared...)
(sacrelized = the same clothing each time, a robe, gown, satin pyjamas...)
(subjugated = collared, caged, 'slave' written on your chest, going on cam...)

Before you begin your trance you will learn you must brush your teeth, and use mouthwash as well. At the least, use a breath mint, pleasant tasting lozenge, or candy. Make sure it's one you won't get sick of in repeated use. Consider picking one flavor per trance/mp3/goal and stick with it. Drink a small amount of water leaving the rest close to you for when you come out of trance. It is important to rehydrate after you come out or wake up as the deep breathing and the time lapsed require that you drink some water.

(sexualized = while edging... )
(sacrelized = while staring at a picture of your Goddess, of a sacred place...)
(subjugated = cum, something gross...heh heh)

Comfortable, stereo, noise cancelling headphones. These not only need to be of good quality, they must feel good when you put them on. I insist hypnoslaves send Me the name and a picture of the headphones they are using before they begin serious training with Me. The right pair of headphones will not slip, become uncomfortable, apply distracting pressure, have poor sound, have poor stereo, have poor controls, nor let outside sound penetrate. 

Every part of your body should be loose and comfortable. There are times where the aid of a workout, stretches, a warm shower or bath, a hot water bottle or even an electric blanket will make you more relaxed than an induction alone. Warming up your body could become an important part of your ritual.

The visuals needed during a hypnotic session can all be in the mind's eye. Even with focal point inductions, eventually we must close our eyes and become efficient at and focus on effortless guided visualization. Use a sleep mask, a scarf, a blindfold to cover your eyes and keep your eyelids still from the start. By blocking out the light or changes of it you will improve your focus and hypnotic results, especially including time distortion hypnosis. Try using a moisturizer, eye cream or line repair serum and you can treat and tend to your skin during your sessions. 

(sexualized = blindfold, worn panties...)
(sacrelized = sleepmask, heated...)
(subjugated = locking blindfold, harness, duct tape...)

Close your eyes and touch the top of your forehead. Look up to that spot and see the full moon, silvery and reflective. This is a very good thing to do right before you begin your trance and even as many times as possible when your attention and focus is called for, and especially when you are being given an instruction in a session. 

The sense of smell can never ever be overlooked. Pick a scent you will be able to stick with.  Find out what scents are calming versus which are invigorating. Either is good for use during hypnosis, an energetic blend can assist with subjects who would otherwise fall asleep during trance and a Domme's worn pair of panties can bring a slave closer to subspace. I am going to suggest scenting something you can hold on to, or have over your nose rather than a scented candle, incense or anything else combustible if you are to be alone and blindfolded.

Scent is one of the most subjective of senses. What a given scent "means" is highly personal, including reactions like relaxation or becoming energized. Whatever scents you find for your session, be sure to try them out before you settle down for hypnosis. Scent can also be closely tied to memory. It may be wise to avoid scents with which you already have a strong association, as the memories may be distracting.

Why don't you think of suggestions for these ones and email Me as a fun little task. 

(sexualized = _____________ )
(sacrelized = ______________ )
(subjugated = _____________ )

Goals. The fourth step is defining and affirming your goal. I've spoken about it, you know you have to log it, but have you made certain the session(s) or hypnotist(s) you are listening to are equally in support of your goal and have affirmed that it is realistic and attainable through hypnosis? A pre-existing session might need to be inquired about directly with the hypnotist who wrote the script. Do you have that kind of access to the Creatrix of the session you are about to train with? If this is unclear, go back to step one, and find a hypnotist you can trust. Once you have your goal in the forefront of your mind, you will feel ready for your session. Being able to maintain and focus your attention during hypnosis is what determines the  success of the session. 

It will be easier to focus when and where you are asked if you:

Go under on an empty stomach. Start your trance when you still feel awake and alert. Begin your session before you are tired. Have a sip or two of water before you go under and have water close by for during or after. If you are hoping to improve your personal level of concentration then spend a minute to visualize the regions of the brain which are responsible for this skill. Is it possible for you to locate these areas of your brain and feel a warm tingle there right now, aware of a new sensation of stimulation?
 

Because you are reading this article about intensifying the effects of your hypnotic trances, you are probably going to want to listen to a file that either includes a deepening induction with the suggestion that you will go deeper each time you listen, or else you will want to add to your playlist after the deprogramming file and before the session you want to train with or trance to. Remember to use the Deepening File.


Reinforcement.
If you've gotten this far, then either way this is the perfect time to focus on past successes and remind yourself of them as often as needed. 

In your journal you will create a page of good memories called your Anchoring page. It can be kept private or shared with your hypnotist if you like, and it will start by writing down 5 things that are powerful, charged, very good memories relating to your success, achievements, personal bests, happy or fun celebrations of you, deeply rewarding accomplishments, perfect outcomes, times where you felt fantastic, full of life, desirable, lovable, wanted, useful. 

Along the way you will also be called upon to think of things that you are grateful for. Create a page in your journal by starting with 5 sentences on things you are truly thankful for. These two points are on a scale which we need to mark and monitor and calibrate from. This is part of fine tuning receptors in the brain, receptors you want to develop in order to enjoy deeper more meaningful trances. The more intense the instrument, the more precise the control system. We all very much enjoy addressing our submissive hypno subjects as ditsy, dazed and dumbstruck, but the fact is they are exotic pets with infinitely interesting brains which they have given over to us, in some cases quite completely. 

Images of your Hypnotic Goddess are there for your motivation. Use these images. They are gifts to you. Be thankful, thinking of the amount of time put in to them. Do not underestimate the power of a personal or custom made just-for-you image, audio or video. A fixation video loop might be just the thing you need. Consider having something tactile as well; a pendant, a crystal, a pocket watch, a lighter to stare into the flame for a moment and anchor yourself to a place where you can continue from. They are habits, they may need to replace other less helpful patterns you have at the moment. 

If you've gotten this far, I can mention drugs and it probably won't scare you off. For some people, alcohol, drugs, medication, muscle relaxants, poppers (amyl nitrite), even anaesthesia can assist with relaxation more than an induction alone and combining chemicals with your personal hypnosis sessions is a personal decision that you should be able to bring up with and discuss with your hypnotist. For others, it will be just the opposite. Powerfully strong effects derived from suggestions of being drugged can be quite enjoyable with less risk. Combining aspects of bondage with your hypnosis can take you and keep you in subspace longer. I enjoy using a gas mask on subjects to force them to slow down and deepen their breathing. They have to focus consciously on timing each breath and this makes their subconscious easy to access and communicate with. The next time they begin a trance with Me, with or without the gas mask, they are able to recall and get to the deepest point they made it to in their last trance and go deeper from there.  

Progress is between you and your goals, no one else. Only compare your results and progress to your past accomplishments, even if all you feel you accomplished was making the time to listen to a session.

There are many different styles and types of induction from slow and progressive to covert and rapid. Remember that it is an art form and that art extends to being a good subject.

To recap, you will always begin with all 5 senses tended to, your goal affirmed, a freshly deprogrammed mind, a deepening induction, a hypnosis session (2 x or on loop) and then habitually starting your session by recalling where you reached last time. 

(Example Playlist: deprogram file + deepening induction + session + session again + reinforcement file).

Email ellechemy@gmail.com to order a link for a Reinforcement File to Sleep after.
Email ellechemy@gmail.com to order a link for a Reinforcement File to Wake Up after.
 
Don`t let anyone tell you that you are not susceptible enough for hypnosis who is not willing or able to run you through one of two established hynpo susceptibility tests, the SHSS or the HGSS. These tests do more than measure the level and depth of your trance state. They serve to measure your response to different styles of inductions and types of direct and subliminal suggestions. It is more likely that a person who is having difficulty with hypnosis is  stopping themselves from entering a trance state rather than a problem with susceptiblity. The odds are that you can be put into a trance. It just may be a very specific one that you have to maintain control over and that you have set up the parameters of in some way.

The Stanford Susceptibility Scale
http://ist-socrates.berkeley.edu/~kihlstrm/PDFfiles/Hypnotizability/SHSSC%20Script.pdf

The Harvard Group Scale
http://socrates.berkeley.edu/~kihlstrm/PDFfiles/Hypnotizability/HGSHSAScript.pdf

I used to work as a massage practitioner and therapist. I would see clients who could only afford 30 minutes of massage yet take 15-20 minutes to relax enough to enjoy it. With hypnosis, even if this happens to you, you can loop the same session to take you deeper within the same trance. 

Tell yourself with Me now that you will be able to go under, and drift deeply. When you come out of trance, you will remember how things shifted, and then you went under, you can recall how far you got and you can go there now. That was easy, and enjoyable, but it doesn't end here. Now you will begin your next trance from this point, these coordinates, and you will drift and sink deeper from here going further than you ever imagined you could on your second hypnotic trance. From now on, you will always take an extra minute to recall where you finished your last trance and you will begin your next one from that point. This is how it is supposed to be, this is how you're meant to be using this time and being used and made to be brought deeper.

Hypnotically yours,

Ellechemy
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Saturday 12 January 2013

The Stage is Set for the HypnoDomme ~ Beware the Trap Door

Imagine an event so global that your kinky little corner of the Internet is suddenly awash with the curious and the contemptuous, everything from the person who just discovered they have this kink and are looking to understand it to the worst trolls 4chan has to offer.

Later this year when Danny Boyle's film 'Trance' hits the theatres searches and interest in hypnosis, especially female hypnotists, is going to spike hard.

The film has it's initial release in the UK in March and the North American will surely follow, because it's Danny Boyle. This is multiple Oscar winning, never had a flop, Danny Boyle. This is a director who produced a zombie movie that the critics actually took seriously.

THIS HAS NEVER HAPPENED TO THIS COMMUNITY BEFORE ~ No one here has ever seen anything like this before. I know people who have been on the front lines of this kind of event. The invite to a prime time talk show fast becomes the viral Facebook meme everybody is laughing about. Are you ready to see your face with an insulting caption? Show of hands, who wants to be the next star wars kid?

So , okay, then what do we do to prepare knowing what is headed our way? This is a good time to ask what you do and do not want to be seen. Regularly scrubbing your social media is a good idea anyway, and even better now. Think of it as Spring Cleaning. Consider making what you can make private or limited access where the option exists. Inraptured has fairly robust privacy features which many of us have been neglecting.

Putting your best face or foot forward is something We all want to do anyway. Many of Us assume We are doing that, but there is always room for improvement. Don't think about whether or not you can improve: Find something to improve. When public interest swings in Our direction We will be the ambassadors for these interests. Think about how your interest in this got started and how many connections or leaps you had to make to arrive at Femme Domme hypnosis. This is a movie about Femme Domme hypnosis. Let Me point out that Rosario Dawson has worn the Dominatrix boots more than a few times. Casting Her in this role tells Us loud and clear that there are Femme Domme elements in this feature.

There will be gawkers. There will be hecklers. There will also be a lot of people encountering interests they don't entirely understand. This wave of attention will contain new subjects and hypnotists alike. This flood will not drown Us but lift Us if We are ready to swim.